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  1. SuperDruid

    Do you worry you're insane?

    I've had several total psychotic vacations in the past. They were extremely stressful before they 'broke', but when I was in them they weren't always so bad. i believe spiritual things came out of those experiences too; it's not just about 'brain mechanics', I reckon. Since my early twenties...
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    INFJ and number of sex partners.

    "It did my soul some good to sully myself a bit and see that the world wouldn't come to an end if I lost control every once in a while. Its good to allow yourself a bit of vulnerability every now and again and not over-intellectualize everything." amen. We grow at the edges of things first...
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    Is submissiveness appealing?

    I concur. Human rights and tolerance are tops. : ]
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    Is submissiveness appealing?

    As WaeV described, the two people in a sexual relationship, ideally, 'complete' one another. a person with a submissive psychology gets energy and fulfillment from being sexually dominated by someone with a dominant psychology, and vice versa. 'Mainstream' people might find what BDSM couples...
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    Is submissiveness appealing?

    Yes, that's what I meant, respectfully. You claim, firstly, that effective modern relationships become a union of two in which both individuals can get their needs met and grow. In this sense you are describing a relationship of equals - all of which I agree with wholeheartedly. However, you...
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    Is submissiveness appealing?

    "As I see it, a relationship involves the blending of two individuals to create something greater than either of them alone. Ideally, a relationship satisfies the emotional and physical intimacy needs of both partners, but it's also more than the utilitarian image conveyed by that...
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    Is submissiveness appealing?

    "today, we're taught to look at humility as a sign of weakness. I think it's a matter of perception. If someone sees a quality as a weakness, they will treat the person as someone with a weakness." I submissively agree with you here entirely. I also agree with That Girl that context...