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Recent content by Soff78

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    Need advice

    I would like advice from infj people (mostly male bc my infj is a male). I really don't want to put my story out in public (posting my story on this thread) but I'm kinda desperate for help. I know this might be unusual but if you're willing to hear my (long and) whole story, could you PM me...
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    Understanding infjs

    Thank you for explaining it from ur pov! That helps to understand better the thought process.
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    Understanding infjs

    Thank you so much!!! Those links were a great read and gave some explanation to what I was looking for! I always thought it was something I did as well lol
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    Understanding infjs

    We talked about it a few months back and he said something "yeah but xxx" and when I recently asked, I said "are u going with me?" And he replied with "how much are the tickets" and we talked about the price for a bit then it died out. Bc I didn't wanna push him, I didn't ask again. I've only...
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    Understanding infjs

    Yes, but I don't wanna assume anything. But also once we talked about the information, there was still no definite answer. However, my infj does tend to leave things hanging. For ex, I asked to clarify if we were meeting a certain day and I didn't get a response, the day passed and so then I...
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    Understanding infjs

    I mean something like ,"lemme think about it" or "I might consider it but..." I mean in general not for the person I'm talking about.
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    Understanding infjs

    So instead of explaining what the reasons might be or basically your thoughts, u leave it hanging? Cause that q was asked over a week ago and still no definite answer or explanation It wasn't exactly a movie q. It was for an event at a future date #
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    Understanding infjs

    A "no" would be fine but why not just say it instead?
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    Understanding infjs

    Sometimes I feel like being me gets annoying if the infj isn't responding like they used to or I get an "off" feeling which can seem like I'm being fake but I'm just holding back.
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    Understanding infjs

    Could you explain the function stacks?? When y'all go on ur "alone time," why is it normal to not respond for a long period of time instead of saying "I'm busy"?
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    Understanding infjs

    It's so hard for me to really understand infj type. It seems like it's not really consistent and hard to figure out what's going on due to lack of them opening up. It's not that I'm constantly pushing for answers but just getting to know them is kinda hard. It's never a direct answer but of the...
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    Understanding infjs

    In that situation, how would you like for it to play out? When you're being pushed.
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    Understanding infjs

    Could you elaborate on the trust part? How does that register as trust to you?
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    Understanding infjs

    I kinda just play it by ear, if you were really asking. I have thought something would play out a certain way but I don't think that's how it WILL be tho.
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    Understanding infjs

    Thats very interesting.. so when y'all "tell the future" is that the only way it can happen (in ur mind?) Like once u think something, there's no way to change ur mind or even the possibility of another ending?