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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    He said in the same mail where he said he is insecure that I will not like him "i will be proud to have you for my gf" too. You are right about me defending him.
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    Most women are attracted to alpha males - thats what he said. I think thats true. I dont think he really means I am too good for him, maybe occassionally he thought that, so did I (that he is too good for me. But only as passing thought and as motivation to be better, so dont think its bad). He...
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    acd, I'd usually agree with you - but you say "he is incapable of making himself happy" and already here you are wrong and are jumping on conclusions - he IS happy person, I assure you, I dont even know someone as happy as he is. His previous relationship was also very happy until shitty ending...
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    Yes, I know. This is why I dont give him much advices, and just will leave him to see for himself. Basically, his indecisiveness and not being very aware of his feelings, passivity, is only thing I think he should change, which is a lot, but I like him from start very much, this is not that...
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    I think he jumped with "i am in with love you" , yes. Well, confusion. I think he likes me genuinely but doesnt wanna relationship just lik that so he is torned in all that but still doesnt wanna lose me. And i dont understand why you mention sex, when we were talking in the beginning in...
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    You sound completely like him, Billy. The way you express yourself and even your facial expression and eyes (avatar).
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    Could an INFJ be happy/successful as a physicist?

    Of course you can. I have an ENFJ friend who is physicist. Its all about passion for some things, not type.
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    Well i noticed he changes opinions of what he feels a lot. This is the thing I dislike about him a lot. If you read avout his previous relationships - he ended confused about who he loves and who he doesnt love, and when he was telling me that story (how he quit his "rebound" relationship...
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    I didnt say "i am in love with you" back, i was more convincin him i am not out of his league etc., Yeah I want him of course!:D
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    Hahaha this story is getting weird!! He sent me message like this: Ok, I decided to admit ; I am in love with you. I didnt wanna meet because I am insecure and think you wont like me. I think you are way above my league and that I will trick you into being with me because you are not aware...
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    I found a great INFP description!!!!

    Wow, I dont relate even a bit.
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    Haha thanks billy i guess i wasnt clear enough in the last post:) i asked him to meet but he said he cant meet yet, and all other things he said that i wrote in last post
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    I talked to him about this and he said he is really really into me. And thought a lot about us and can really imagine himself in a relationship with me, but he is not ready yet for a new relationship, but "Is getting there". Then explained his mind and heart say yes but his body says no, like he...
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    Well he said the love was decreasing during the end of relationship. I think he really is iver her ebcause when i asked him about it he said he is so bored with that subject because he really doesnt care anymore why this why that, he said he was very broken for few months, crying all days etc. I...
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    He confuses me - an INFJ guy, HELP!

    Not sure where you concluded this, but thats not true, i know 100%. he never even started sex topic wih me first, he says he couldnt have sex with someone who he doesnt love and had sex with only 3 girls in life. He turned down all sex outside relationships. If you cocluded this based on open...