You know you're an INFJ when you find you subconsciously feel like you already don't fit into or belong in an INFJ forum...(of all things!!!)...even though you haven't really posted or engaged much yet.
You don't know what to do when you see or hear something very beautiful. You don't know how to absorb it, process it and re-express it. Just observing and experiencing it doesn't feel enough.
If he can't give you the benefit of the doubt this one time, I would be worried. If you are always doing things like that then I could understand why he'd be annoyed. But if this is the first time something like this has happened, I think he is over reacting.
You can almost see a stream or a connection between their head and their heart. Everything they think about, they feel and everything they feel, they think about.