Recent content by Rach

I've been married to an adorable ESTP almost 20 years. He keeps me grounded and in-the-moment, and I calm his ass down. I tried NF relationships way back, it was too hot/cold for me, my own intensity is enough. :)

The Humanitarian You're compassionate and friendly. You see the good in everyone and treat all living creatures with the respect they deserve. You get along well with people and bring a feeling of harmony to your social circle. You're genuinely interested in people. You dislike conflict and...

Five hour meeting today, yucko

I just did so last week with a friend who I've been close to for several years. I mulled it over for about three years before I was able to do it. I wish nothing but the best for her, it was just time for me to move on, I'm hugely relieved it's over, but I felt like a giant dick when I did it.

My daughter is 21 years old and an ENFP, I had her take the MTBI test about a month ago and when I found this out a lot of puzzle pieces fell into place for me. I have never had a more complex and tumultuous relationship with another human being in my life! I can honestly say I was afraid of...

Apparently I aspire to be ENTJ but I'm really INFJ.....cmon, yes id like to tweak a few things but not that much! Lol

It's vague and mysterious, sounds suicidal-ish.....mostly to me it screams manipulation and attention seeking.

I would say I'm somewhat touchy....I like hugs from hubby and my girls but I don't initiate touching as much as they do. I know my husband would appreciate more affection from me but he is all over me constantly as it is! :p I have noticed I'm usually the first to pull away from a hug almost...

Educated guesses: Dad: INTJ Mom: ESTJ - Mama stumps me, this is my best guess but it doesn't fit w/her as well as it does my sister. Sister: ESTJ Brother: ISFP Youngest Daughter: XXFP - She's only 13 and exhibits both E/I and S/N Closest Friend: ISFJ - We've been extremely close for...

I'd like to work in hospice in some capacity....although I don't do blood so it couldn't be nursing. :m097:

Actualized type: INFJ (who you are) Introverted (I) 62.5% Extroverted (E) 37.5% Intuitive (N) 58.82% Sensing (S) 41.18% Feeling (F) 57.5% Thinking (T) 42.5% Judging (J) 63.64% Perceiving (P) 36.36% INFJ - "Author". Strong drive and enjoyment to help others. Complex personality. 1.5% of total...

Hi Dee, I'm new here but not new to being INFJ. :) Your post struck me as I did the same thing with boozing and partying starting in my late 20's, and for the same reasons you describe. I never really liked myself or "got" myself and why I was so different from everyone I knew. So I...