Recent content by Poppyseed

You are so right. But then it’s a case of a simple solution that’s difficult to execute. It requires you to be vulnerable and in circumstances where a friendship is established, you risk losing that friendship. I think it’s almost always worth the risk but risks are scary regardless of...

Tell me more about this. You were friends and then a couple? I ask because I have a long time friend (lost touch and recently reconnected) who I’ve developed feelings for. I just found out he’s an INFJ and it explains why we just seem to get each other. I was looking forward to seeing my...

I often find out the people I have a strong connection with and admire are INFJs. Just this week I found out a guy friend I’ve known for a long time but recently developed feelings for is an INFJ. So yes, for me I feel very connected and attracted to other INFJs. Other than that I’d say I’m...

I don’t know what it’s like for male INFJs but I find men very easily misconstrue my friendliness as interest. So much so that early on I subconsciously started to ignore them because the thought of having to reject some crushes me and the likelihood that I would have to is large. Not because...

I Know this thread isn’t about you, I don’t mean to stir anything up, and it might be too late now but- I would argue that it does matter in your situation with your co-worker. Friendships between heterosexual men and women should have different boundaries than friendships between two...