Recent content by Polly Wes

Timing has so much to do with it all. I sent a wish out for you to at least get some communication from him - I hope it comes true.

It really is a miracle when these connections find each other - let him find you again. It’s not the end. Sleep, eat and take care of yourself. You will be best for each other at your best.

Because connections like the one you describe with him are rare. INFJs are always wanting this deeper connection, most of the time they feel misunderstood and often they are. It is like a shinning light when someone does ‘get us’ and we won’t let go of that easily. However we seek harmony in...

It doesn’t mean he has emotionally let it go. He may be assessing it from every angle and assessing his behaviour in it. Likely also he may be grieving the ‘what if’ opportunities. If he comes back in needs to be in an emotionally balanced way, because you are deserving of his strength also...

It is so hard for an INFJ to let relationships go, they will do anything to keep going. It sounds like he has immense guilt over his marriage and is likely to try anything to make it work. Or even if it isn’t guilt may keep him there or the I should of tried this and that scenarios. Despite...

I hope you did that with the cookie! Hearing that gives me faith that after difficult unresolved matters life can still deliver sweet moments!

I find INFJs tend to be open and direct in their intentions. Where as the NFPs tend to be ‘assuming’ they don’t respond as directly, they may hint but not be direct. I had this issue with an INFP male, he assumed we were together, never discussed it but just assumed. Of course I wanted to be...

Hello, Even though this is an old thread reading it I felt I should reply as I’ve had a somewhat similar recent thing happen to me. It is amazing when you connect with someone on that level and yes it does feel like an end of a relationship, as the connection is so rare, dare I say almost sent...