Recent content by Paul Wenz

"The Fugitive Kind" Marlon Brando, Joanna Woodward ,Anna Magnani.

Life is good if it flows along but passion and deep stuff are the real thing.

So many of the replies sound like me. Except i found maths very easy once i got in the grove. Writing is almost like having to see the sunlight each day. A lot of things i studied were very easy and often un-challenging, then i was always interested in so many things it was hard to focus. Some...

"So why, then, do so many people insist that psychology is not a science? " Knit picking i suspect or a snobbery of some sort. Why wouldn't the study be a science? Without doubt the best in this field are very , very bright.

I worked for myself for many years , so i did what i liked really . Before that a student at a very stuffy university , some problems about conforming. Returning later to the work force i managed to score jobs where i didn't have co-workers breathing down my neck and was pretty much left alone...

"Most people find me too intense too...." This is rather pointing at my life, i have grappled with it but think it brings quality relationships into your life, so it's a positive. I often think about the books people read at work or their music and i wouldn't waste my time with this. A doctor...

Always wondered? Could and have done most jobs and nothing was ever beyond me. Personal Assist for many years , love organising, time management . Later often work alone or unsupervised . Love fixing problems. Worked as a librarian. Laboratory assistant. I was very good at maths , did...

Angela, the best thing in life is having children and being a good parent , nurturing and preparing them for life. This is the only thing in life that matters, you must be good at this, otherwise you have failed. There is something very nice about your personal writings . To me it seems a pity...

"We are the ones who figure things out by observing rather than interacting, which gives us the opportunity to learn at reduced risk." I often find myself the one who sees what is really happening because i am always observing and thinking of the consequences. It amuses me watching other...

I talk slowly because i do, i give clear instructions that can be easily understood when asked. Talking shit fast i find funny unless there is some content. but please don't think i am stupid because i talk clearly and slowly. If you mock me i will run rings around you and make you look like a...

"I am concerned about the general public that foams at the mouth over any drama and the blown up headlines that are on the TV. To me that is kind of sickness of the consciousness. It's what people want to see. I am starting to think that people are aroused by violence and trauma. " Exactly...

Plume, yes did read Eric Frome many, many years back. remember many years back GF on her parting said i few times to me i will never love anyone as i love you. What the hell was she thinking? Later on i met a number of very suitable and lovely ladies, at the time i was too damaged to think of...

Plume, thanks. I think in part earlier in life i wanted a family because i did ask . A few times the replies were dishonest and so there was no future in reality. As well loyalty and the nurturing thing don't come to some people. It pays then to read between the lines and think about what is...

"a trait of INFJs is to feel things more intensely and deeply." I have gone through life wanting to feel deeply and was never satisfied when things were not intense. Mostly it was good but i do ponder why have intense thought s for people i have split with 25 years ago. One person wronged me...

When put in the corner with someone who is prying, i make stuff up and turn it very awkward towards them. Small talk........... don't do it ........generally i lapse into often deeply personal conversations , that seem comfortable . I then wonder what my real calling was?