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    Thank you for the well-wishes :)

    Thank you for the well-wishes :)
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    unintentional emotional intimacy

    I don't experience this, but I sometimes find others form attachments to me when we share such "moments". I've realized the NF way of interacting can seem a lot more emotionally intense to others, it can be something special to them, whereas to me it is rather typical. I have much higher...
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    What was the best album of 2010 ?

    LCD Soundsystem - This Is Happening Hot Chip - One Life Stand Crystal Castles - II
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    ---------- Clarify this, I see the elitism pronounced in TJ modalities of thought more than NF...

    ---------- Clarify this, I see the elitism pronounced in TJ modalities of thought more than NF. I certainly know that self confidence is a way however missing the most important aspect, self belief, through a proper alignment in self belief with personal identity and spirit do we become...
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    ---------- Then I would want to understand when do you feel you are mature or start thinking...

    ---------- Then I would want to understand when do you feel you are mature or start thinking that we are no long in their what I call late blooming attitude and stage and start taking charge of our lives. Starting to be our own creator of our life paths rather than our limiter in our life...
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    ---------- Hahha doing well hay hay, say OrangeAppled would you be happy to talk about your...

    ---------- Hahha doing well hay hay, say OrangeAppled would you be happy to talk about your attitude to life? ---------- Sure... ---------- I mean you know how our preferences change according to life experience and such and that we become more mature as we experience more and such. How...
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    Being an INFP

    I didn't take offense. I was explaining what I meant & why I disagree with your opinion. How do we know they are accurate? There is no way to "prove" type, as it is only a theory, or really a labeling system. Its accuracy is determined by confirmation from the individual, who may or may not...
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    Being an INFP

    Have you read Jung's Psychological Types? That is what MBTI is based on, and yes, it seeks to the indicate cognitive processes as defined by Jung. Of course there are links between behavior & thought process, but thoughts & behavior have other influences (ie. gender, culture, age, maturity...
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    INFPs: Being reserved and needing space

    ^ Love to read (the stereotypical INFP is quite a bookworm also)....I'm not a fan of genre fiction though. I tend to prefer classic literature or literary fiction. I'd say a good chunk of what I read, a lot of people might find boring. Page turners are nice, but I want to feel like my life has...
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    INFPs: Being reserved and needing space

    Are you reserved? How and when? My default state is rather neutral and quiet. It takes a lot of energy out of me to express emotion; I avoid it. Unfortunately, I get accused of coldness or snobbishness because of it. To top it off, I am shy, and my level of timidity further inhibits...
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    Being an INFP

    FYI, J/P is a not a function....it simply determines whether or not your extroverted function is one of judging or perceiving. MBTI also indicates mindsets, not behavior. Noted behavior patterns in types can be off the mark; it's the thought process that makes the personality type. I suggest...
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    Differences between writing style and personality?

    I think my Fi comes through more in writing. I find writing a much, much easier way to articulate my thoughts. In person, I'm a little more jumbled, less articulate, possibly relying on metaphor even more (which confuses some people as much as it's meant to clarify). As a result, I'm less formal...
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    Are you always aware of your reasons for your attractions?

    When you're interested in someone, are you always aware of the reasons for the attraction? Nope. Often I am just curious about them, or there's something that I like that I can't put my finger on. Occasionally, of course, I clearly note the person is very good-looking, intelligent, witty...
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    The Introvert and Living Alone

    I LOVED IT. I hope to live alone again soon. I technically do now, but being next door to my family, I might as well live in the same building. I don't think I'd want to live alone forever, but I don't want to share my space unless it's with someone very special....that sounds bad, but it's...
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    Mathematical Intelligence vs. Linguistics and the Arts

    In regards to the OP, I believe language may actually be a left brain associated strength, BTW. I think right brain thinking tends to be "non-verbal". I have heard women are supposedly better with languages; so maybe that is why it's devalued. That does imply some connection to Feeling to...