Recent content by OliOliOxenFree

For me, it all depends on what kind of person I want to attract. Personally, I like those who are emotionally stable, financially stable, healthy, and looking for something long term instead of a short term fling. In this sense, I feel I'm more attractive as I'm getting older and gaining...

Ummmm...not quite sure where the joke was in that. Sorry!

I think @HoneyBeeStings meant "cue" if I'm not mistaken?

This this this and fuckingggg this. We honestly don't really care about what the conversation is as long as it isn't something you've told everyone else. It's not that we don't care about that stuff, but it's the fact that our connection with you feels so much more meaningful when you do share...

I'm alllllll about that sweet and juicy one on one. Every time I have the opportunity to speak to someone I'm interested romantically I just start peppering them with questions. Some which can be extremely personal and they'll be taken aback by how forward and upfront I'm being. I think very...

Yeah this is a bit of a problem for me too. One of the biggest assumptions people have with me is that I can seem snobbish, unapproachable, and extremely reserved/shy. When it comes to the dominating extrovert types in a group, I honestly don't mind if they're the "life of the party". People...

I feel you completely. I usually am really nervous starting conversations, especially in groups cause I'm afraid I'll say the wrong thing. But I've found that the second someone gets me one on one and says ANYTHING, BAM, I don't shut up. I'm like a bee guarding my nest. Except the nest is my...

Aw c'mon, don't be jelly. We'll let you in on the fun :kissingheart:

I think it might be different for different people, but I'm currently seeing an INTP girl and she won't even dare look at me even when I ask her to. Some people can be extremely shy and not know the best way to express how they feel. I, myself, love staring into peoples eyes. I love the...

God I fucking love this comment. Like x10

This might be an old as hell thread, but I'm bringing it back case I wanted to ask this of everyone. Mine is: I just imagine myself being a sexy as fuck chick who's writing a sick diss track on some new bitch who moved into town. What even is my life?

I understand what you're saying. I like forming out my thought as sentences in my head first so that I can phrase it in the best possible way when I say it. I feel I contribute more when I talk less...in a weird sort of way. Gosh, I just realized how strange that actually sounds ahahah

I wish I could like that a thousand times. I FEEL YOU. <3

I don't know if there's a difference between having self-confidence in a group and having it with just one person, but I feel like the confidence you get when you speak to a group of people takes a lot more effort than the latter. I do understand I need to get over my fear, but it will...

Thank you so much for your advice Chickensoup. It makes a lot of sense when you put it the way you do. I guess I'd have no problem accepting social invitations, it's just getting to the stage of being invited in the first place hahaha. But your 5th (or is it your 4th point?) is very good...