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    [INFJ] Enfp Pursuing Infj- Advice Needed Please

    That last post had a lot of "me" and "I" in it. Sorry for the defensive tone, if it came off that way. Thanks again.
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    [INFJ] Enfp Pursuing Infj- Advice Needed Please

    James, FWIW, the situation as I see it is not as cut and dry as an old dude hitting on a younger girl/woman. (I use the term woman and girl interchangeably in this context, btw, so please don't read too much into that.) I am not immature in terms of handling responsibility, my treatment of...
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    [INFJ] Enfp Pursuing Infj- Advice Needed Please

    On the age gap- I mentioned it because I do think it is relevant, but I do not think it is a deal breaker. I am still very much an adventurous soul that wants to see the world and experience a variety of things and places, not settle down. The reason I am interested in her is because she is...
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    [INFJ] Enfp Pursuing Infj- Advice Needed Please

    This. You are right. It has to happen organically, which is how I would have it too. Thank you for being blunt. I am happy to to have gained a better understanding of my type, who I am attracted to, and who I am a good match for. It will help a lot in future relationships.
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    [INFJ] Enfp Pursuing Infj- Advice Needed Please

    @atree My intuition is telling me to just let it go and back off. If she does have feelings for me, I shouldn't have to guess, and letting a little time pass won't make them disappear. I have also experienced that a girl may not respond to my advances, but after I give he rspace and get back...
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    [INFJ] Enfp Pursuing Infj- Advice Needed Please

    I also want to mention that she saw me approaching her at her shop and immediately looked away, but without losing the smile she had been wearing. When I got closer she again turned her head towards me and acknowledged my presence. When we talked she would alternate between looking to her...
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    [INFJ] Enfp Pursuing Infj- Advice Needed Please

    Hello everyone, I am a 36 year old (though I look 27) ENFP male. Tall, in shape, smart, and pretty successful. I am a genuinely nice guy and in no way am a player. I want to find a soul mate. I was creeping on the Pinterest account of the girl I am presently interested in, and saw that she had...