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Recent content by MoneyJungle

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    What would you do if you weren't afraid?

    Be completely honest.
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    spouting knowledge

    I love know-it-alls, when they are concise. As long as you are brief with your random factoids, I find it very entertaining.
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    Do you ever think about doing really bad things?

    Not prior to reading this thread (make it stop).
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    Leadership Styles for INFJ

    I think the best leaders are reluctant ones.
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    Do INFJ's somehow appear to be cold?

    It has only started to really hit home with me recently how much I push people away with my aloofness. I ask myself why people aren't attracted to me, when in reality most people are warmer towards me than I am with them. I usually give the people I get to know a little disclaimer about how I...
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    Senses, cause you have to use them

    I put touch because it is the only one that is unquantifiable. I know for a fact that my hearing and vision aren't good, and I assume I'm pretty sure I've damaged my taste and smell through years of smoking. I have an increased threshold of pain, but I think my touch is as effective as ever.
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    What are the first things you notice about people?

    I tend to notice clothes, race, gender and size all at the same time. I suppose clothes are the first thing I give any thought to as they tend to be a fairly accurate representation of their mood. It is not so much the niceness of their clothes so much as the presentation of what they have on...
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    Communication

    Good question. I think a lot of my comfort level depends on the urgency of my message, which varies by audience. I am most comfortable throwing out ideas that are to be taken or left at the discretion of the audience, which usually implies a more casual setting. As the formality and urgency...
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    Communication

    I hate conflict as well. The only thing that will make me raise my voice is when I feel I have completely exhausted the avenues of soft-spoken, concise conversation. This rarely happens (although it was a bit more frequent when I was in the Navy). I never feel better afterwards because I just...
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    Insecurity

    Usually when I find myself insecure in a relationship there is good reason to be so. Then I wonder if my insecurity is the cause of the whole thing. I've never been with someone who was willing to simply humor me with some reassurance, which is apparently unbearable for a lot of people...