Recent content by meander

I've had lots of precognitive dreams, only been seeing it when it was "to late". Most of them are more in a way of synchronicity but some of them are some kind of warning to me, maybe from my underlying intuitive senses, because maybe I ignore something in real life. I dreamt for a long time...

I don't know - I care to that extent, that I easily can see the peoples problems and needs, I rather contemplate and try helping in a direct way, if I am able to, like providing a link or recommend something (like a certain book, or special food or vintamins or whatever) - but I have learned...

Yeah, talking about everything is cool for me, I really like to listen but I seldom can provide a solution, so I feel pressured to give the "right" answer when someone comes to me, talking about their problems. Sometimes there are people who open up a can of worms and want others to care about...

I have to second that, this is so true for me as well, I couldn't have described it better than you did. I also presume, that most part of the discussion is not about the facts but about the social structure/hierarchy of ppl involved, everyone wants to have a saying and wants to be accepted, and...

Oh yeah, that. I sit there and listen and some people suddenly tell me their darkest secrets, I don't like that. I am flustered and don't know how to change the topic. I like listening though and feel inspired when someone tells me more positive stuff.

That I nag people, when I just pointing out facts. I feel guilty and misunderstood then, maybe I am just being rude and my speech is not very empathetic, more like aspergers or something. That I am stuck up, when I am just being insecure and a bit shy. That I don't like someone, whe I am just...

Same happens to me, but I guess I fear it, it unbalances me, I often feel regret or sorrow. Doesn't happen too often though, and sometimes I think it happens to someone as well when I look at them. In ancient times a direct look was meant to be a thread, maybe we still react like this...

Yeah people feel uncomfy around me, because of my lack of body language, lack of eye contact, lack of words even. I am not lazy, I am just introvert and "socially inept". When I look at someone, they are perplexed, maybe I am staring... most of the time I am not looking, my eyes are wandering...

I second this. There is a saying: 'Money is a excellent servant but a miserable master.' Maybe this is the reason we seem to live in miserable times. My apathy comes from me feeling powerless, not being able to 'save' the world or doing sth useful to help saving the world/people. I combat it...

"Your ideas are green"

"You are from Pluto!" Oh. :mlight: But I like the description.

Hmm. Would it help if they would just say "I heard what you said and I think I understand what you mean, but..."? Because, I sometimes feel worked up about people not listening to me: If they don't say clearly that they heard/understood me, I asume they are not listening/understanding. Faulty...

--------------------Ni -----------------Fi -----------------Ne ----------------Te ---------------Fe --------------Ti ----------Si ----------Se Possible result: INTJ (experimental) Possible result: INFP Surprising me, somehow. I am too "mystical" for an INTJ and too "realistic" for an...

Yeah, that's right, I think. But I don't think they actually would send that e-mail :) I guess it would sit in the sketches-folder of their mail-account like - forever. But they would work gradually on the plan to eventually kiss the guy/girl.

Some people are sensitive especially about their hands, musicians, gold smiths and the likes... most of them try to prevent handshakes. I totally understand them. Besides, I am hypochondric:mpoke:, I wonder how many flus I got just by shaking hands.:mill: