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Recent content by MajorTom

  1. M

    Is this a classic Martyr?

    I'm not necessarily saying she is at fault but all she ever told me was the boys father cheated on her. Now he is a devoted father, cannot fault him one but for that and they were engaged when togther too. What I was wondering is if everything was rosey in that relationship why would he...
  2. M

    Is this a classic Martyr?

    Sorry yes I guess I have written it in a way that probably sounds quite clinical. All's I have ever tried to do is help her with everything and as you see from what I've written always refuses help even from her friends. I want to help her now and don't know how to approach it as she completely...
  3. M

    Is this a classic Martyr?

    I wrote all this down after we broke up the other week going back over all the signs. I sat her down a couple of months back to say I think there maybe something wrong and got major backlash so never brought the subject up again. Would never bitch about her, love her with all my heart and of...
  4. M

    Is this a classic Martyr?

    From what I've read on the subject from various places and the things I have observed in her behaviour above, it rings out to me. Was looking for other peoples views from what they know about the complex. Cheers.
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    Is this a classic Martyr?

    Hi Guys, My first post here and trying to find some answers. I have recently broken up with my Fiance that I had been with for 3 years. I have been noting down some observations and would apprieciate if someone can tell me if this sounds like Martyr Complex? Kerry: Previous relationships –...