Recent content by Lynn

What do you mean it doesn't affect the way you are to them? You just told me you can't look your best friend in the eye sometimes because he knows too much. And well..I care. That's why I am here.

I know Yield but is it truly impossible for us to find someone who doesn't judge us as much as we pretend they do? I hope not. :/

Aw Yield you are really hard on yourself, even for an INFJ lol. I completely understand though hating the feeling that someone you are close to is judging you for knowing too much. But as anyone else would probably point out, you may be making it worse than it actually is in your mind. I think...

I agree with others that INFJs have an especially hard time getting over relationships. I still obsess over lost loves and friendships and ask myself what I did wrong...even though it was the other person who cheated, lied, backstabbed, etc etc. I think the answer is we never get over it...and...

I was just about to ask the same question. I am so glad I found other INFJs, I used to think I was the only person like this. One thing I do try and do is try and detach myself from the stressor and calm down before returning to the problem.