Recent content by lucretiia

Does this mean I'm lucky to have found an INFJ non-gay male?

BUSTED. Yep, I'm a scientist. I'm doing well with 1. and 3. Need to work on 2. and 4.

Thnx. Consistent, genuine interest is not a problem since I sincerely care. I haven't gotten to the L word yet, but it's looming.

Romance??? I'm an INTP for christ sakes. We don't know what this means, so I guess I'm in deep doo doo on this one. And I have no idea how he feels about me, although he drives 5 and a half hours to visit me every chance he can, which gives me an indication he doesn't hate me!

Could it be that he's waiting on me to declare my undying love & devotion?

Found that door. It leads to, well, to his idealistic passion in life, that BTW has very little to do with our relationship. I want to find a door that opens to "us". I think I'm hanging in some suspended animation while we're taking data on each other.

Currently involved with an INFJ. Yeah, physical is easy. Problem is getting either of us to open up emotionally and mentally. We're at a stand-off on "baring our souls", provided we have them. Any advice on how to help a cautious INTP break down INFJ walls?