Recent content by lola

First of all, thanks for putting up this post, it's interesting. I totally agree with you, there are lots of times that i feel i have to change tactics in order to get through to somebody with what i have to say. It is pretty amazing when we meet people who (for lack of a better phrase) just...

I can see why people find arrogance attractive, however I think that arrogance usually signals for a deeper sign of insecurity...lol. I think if someone needed to assert themselves with arrogance, and can't be open about themselves, it would mean they were trying to cover up for something else...

this is a really good topic, it's a pity we haven't seen more posted up from others. I agree with random, sometimes the lack of spontaneity can keep me disconnected within this type. I think also, our quietness and the levels of verbal communication that people misinterpret for...

Scary truth! Yes, sometimes people don't like an ugly truth pointed out to them when it is clear and present to somone like an infj. I think it depends, like you said on how we 'package' the truth for people - is it nice and smooth or does it frighten others? With a natural affinity for...

perhaps you would only know this if you were an infj..... lol

i totally feel the same way sometimes! Sometimes I wish people could tone it down a little in a big room. It's so affirming to hear this, thank you! :).

Sometimes I think we would be better off as mimes.... lol

I wonder... I wonder how many times a misunderstood infj can live with getting their feelings hurt for lack of being open and honest enough to truthfully explain the entire content of one's own train of thought regarding helping others in the grand scheme of things, and putting that...

i thought this would be a fun post - how often does this happen to any of you - you're talking to someone and you can read them so well and they start freaking out? Do you guys have any examples of this? Sometimes I do it and it makes me feel isolated and i want to leave a party/big group...