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    Final US presidential debate - thoughts?

    Additionally, thank you for this.
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    Final US presidential debate - thoughts?

    I too fear Romney's victory in office. Listen to White Horse MP3 towards bottom: http://wfmu.org/playlists/shows/47799 talks about Romney's pin he wore during the debate that had a White Horse on it, which (arguably but obviously) depicts the "The White Horse Prophecy" Which is "a statement...
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    [INFJ] INFJs: Critical, Cruel, Perfectionists under Stress?

    I do this very same thing. I didnt like to be told this at first, but when my partner brought this to my attention using several examples, it made me step back and see what i was doing. Perhaps you could try this with him as well?
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    [INFJ] INFJs: Critical, Cruel, Perfectionists under Stress?

    I apologize, I'm still not quite sure how to use replies and comments here. I originally said: bahha. This is not intended for the original statement made by ShadowKnightness, but rather for this thread : Originally Posted by acd Sounds like a crybaby jerk thing and not an infj thing...
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    How do you see yourself in various stages of your life

    iI really enjoyed reading this. I too am working toward being a professor, it requires me to work on my portfolio and apply for schools. I'm impateint with my goals when I cannot see them come to reality faster, im working on that.
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    How to stop personally relating to everything?!

    It's helped me to stop myself before i say something, and ask "is this relevant? will this help the conversation to grow? can I word this differently to make it not about ME but rather about the story at hand?" I feel it's beautiful, and a curse, to see all sides at once. Sometimes i feel...
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    How to stop personally relating to everything?!

    From my experience, it's not that i want to change anyone. I just want to relate to them. I don't know if jupiterswoon was referring to wanting to instruct people on how to change, more just how to stop relating to them via a personal story.
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    How to stop personally relating to everything?!

    Jesus, this sounds like me. I once wanted to do an entire painting series based off bonobo monkeys because at the time it had this relevance to what i was experiencing in my life. i think we just like to relate to people. I've been told I was narcissictic and i was always offended. I just...
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    INFJ - Why ENTPs scare me.

    I am an INFJ female, with an ENTP male. We have been together for nearly a year and it seems that I am running into this problem/question consistently.....wondering if I am a cog in his machine, rather, "is he using me?"? I ponder this for hours on end, with and with out him. My confusion and...