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Recent content by Kirsi71

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    Your preferred type for a "buddy".

    Loyalty, humour and intelligence, is what I look for in my relationships. I don't necessarily mean haha-humour, but I like witty people. I like friendships where I can pick up the thread right away even though we haven't met in a while.
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    Cool, I don't know how to accept it either....

    Cool, I don't know how to accept it either....
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    What is your definition for family?

    I like the Coupland definition: "A family is a bunch of people god put together by pointing at names in the phone book, and if you don't care for these strangers for the next 70 years or so you will feel like an asshole." Roughly quoted. My take on it is that there are families you choose and...
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    Which 1 word describes you as a child and which 1 word describes you as an adult or now?

    Name: Kirsi Age:: 38 Then: Wise Now: Precocious
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    Do INFJs like cats?

    Love cats! Just had to put my old, arthritic cat to sleep and I miss him terribly. It's true what they say about cats leaving their paw prints on your heart. Without the many lovely and funny memories I have of our time together my heart would break!
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    Favorite Family Guy character and quote.

    I love Stewie...favourite quote: “Somewhere in this state, Jeb Bush is eating a live puppy”
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    INFJs and feelings of being alone, different, disconnected or lost

    I can feel utterly lonely at parties, even with old friends, I don't understand why they talk about the things they do. I find their topics shallow and have sat many times waiting for the conversation to steer into the fields that I find interesting and important. I just don't have anything to...
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    INFJ Memory

    Same with me...names disappear the instant I'm being introduced to somebody. I do remember faces!
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    INFJ Memory

    I have always thought that I had a bad memory, but I understand now, from learning about INFJs and our type that I just have a different kind of memory. I rarely remember chronology, dates, factual details. I do remember what people said, what the athmosphere and the mood was, how people...
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    Are a lot of INFJs bisexual?

    It doesn't matter to me. If love came to me I wouldn't question its form. I don't think I'm bisexual or homosexual or heterosexual...just sexual.
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    Quotes we didn't make up.

    "I vant to be alone" - Greta Garbo "When I said I wanted to be alone, I didn't mean I wanted to be lonely" - Greta Garbo
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    Songs that are your life

    People just ain't no good - Nick Cave Lullaby - The Cure When doves cry - Prince
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    Zombie Survival scenario

    I would go U.E. commando style, find a stronghold under ground with easy access to the surface. Early on I would raid stores for survival gear, food, water purification tablets, weapons - but also books on survival. - "The Zombie survival guide"!!! I'd get canned goods and in the long run would...
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    Would You Want To Relive Parts Of Your Life?

    If I have the power to change it - to be born with the knowledge of what will happen. Then yes (Hell Yes!). I could have saved myself so much heart ache, bruises and scars and know my worth from day one. I would gladly skip the teen years though, yeuch, those weren't fun.