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    [PAX] INFJ-isms!

    Here's one I use all the time, usually when a friend is hinting at having emotional problems but isn't coming out with it: "I love you! You can talk to me if you need to talk to someone!" *fantasizing about being the shoulder the friend cries on and reaping all of the fame and glory the title...
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    Withholding Emotions and Facades Within

    Hmmm... This is a tricky one. As far as covering up bad emotions, I usually try to but those who know me well (or anyone who happens to say something that pushes the "start bawling" button... You know what I'm talking about!) will be able to notice that something is "off" about me. For example...
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    Idealism & Perfectionism In The INFJ

    So basically perfectionism is a symptom of idealism? @magister343: That totally happened to me all the time my first two years of high school. I was better about it junior and senior year, probably because I moved to a new state and school, so 1. My enthusiasm for school was reinvigorated and...
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    Idealism & Perfectionism In The INFJ

    I can completely relate to that. I believe it's possible to be simultaneously a perfectionist and a procrastinator. Many times when working on school projects, I've become overwhelmed with the amount of work that I've assigned myself (often far above the threshold for what's required) and start...
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    Biggest Source of Frustration as an INFJ

    My biggest frustration is probably when people JUST WON'T LET ME help them!! I had huge problems with this with an ex-boyfriend. He's an INTJ, so of course perfect in every way and doesn't need anyone's help with anything, ever. Every time I tried to help him emotionally he would lash out at me...
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    INFJs and money

    I've never had much money to deal with, so I think time will tell for me. I currently have a job but all of that money is going straight towards college. I think it's not so much that I'm bad with money, just that I know what I want to get and waste no time in doing so. I recently graduated high...