Recent content by johnkim

HI Subwayrider, Thanks and I understand how you feel. It's better to accept how you feel right now of being not ready than trying to force yourself to feel ready. Now I also believe it's so important to stay true with yourself. I have been wondering why I began feeling unhappy after high...

Use your creativity. You can be waiting for a bus at a bus stop, waiting for a train, or whatever and had a conversation with another man. Or you could be at another city. Is it that hard to come up with a simple story that you met a gay person? It's not like you have to fabricate a story...

Hi Subwayrider, I actually feel the opposite. I had two polar opposite thoughts: one desired love and another rejected love similar to the reasons you've listed. The rejection of love was not my true desire. Instead, it was more of a coping mechanism to avoid cognitive dissonance. If I tell...

Let's see. I answered "3-4" but maybe you can barely call them "relationships" First, I dated a college chick in an online MMRPG game (Ultima Online) when I was 11. I just pretended to be 22. She desperately wanted to call me but I came up with all kind of excuses to dodge her calls. We were...

Simple. Start saying how you were hit-on by gay men in a bar and start talking about it.