Recent content by Jennywocky

I'm still at core the same person, but how I express myself today is almost the opposite of how I expressed myself twenty years ago. I was very caught into looking like the quintessential INTP when I was twenty, neurotic about ever appearing stupid or unknowledgeable, and denied any emotionalism...

Just to look at something else slightly, did you feel like you violated their "rules" for the behavior of friends? Their response was very much as if you had backstabbed them, regardless of your opinions. You apparently did something they perceived as the ultimate in disloyalty or violation...

I have two "biological" children (one with some special needs) and one we adopted. They're in the 10-13 age range now. I would have to say that being a parent has been the best and yet most challenging thing I've ever done in my life. And it changes you. You're always a parent. Even if your...

Actually, you don't need into his account, you just need his account name. Then you can scan eBay for the items he's posted. And I think you will still be able to see what he has sold (closed auctions as well). For your own piece of mind, match it up to the inventory missing items. Make a list...

Things that offend me: - Personal continual inconsistencies - Skewed judgment of others / undeserved suspicions - Lack of self-awareness and even having no interest in being self-aware - Consistently selfish behavior (read as "unfair" by me) - Insensitivity / Carelessness in regards to the...

Well, that's one thing you have to do -- cleanse your mind of MBTI-style thinking. The Enneagram is based on archetypes, not function combinations. So Fi and Fe have no real meaning here. you are in a completely different frame of reference. Yet, in the Enneagram, there is no distinction between...

I don't remember how it works... whether if you can actually track through ALL the points. I think the first integration point is always the most apparent. (You're taking up strengths on the One if you're a Four that will help buttress your Four weaknesses.) I am betting that some things about...

Yes, generally that is how it works. But I think having a high 6 is interesting. What are your directions of int and disint? With me, my three high scores were: 1. Five 2. Four (close to the same as my Five, but consistently under) 3. Nine ... fairly strong but not in the same clump as...

Actually, your second highest score does not get involved in regards to wings. If it happens to be next to your primary score, then yes, that's a strong wing. Otherwise you look at the numbers to either side of your primary type and decide which is stronger. (In either case, though, yes, your...

My best friends tend to be N's and either introverts or low-key extroverts. ENTJs scare me. ESTJs are easier for me, but until I know them, they can scare me too. INTJs sometimes put me off cuz they're stubborn (says the stubborn chick). IxFJs, I deal with very very well, I just know how to...