Recent content by jennifoo

I think Gaze in on point with the list he posted in terms of the motivations of each type. I don't think it's a matter of only "how you feel/are" in all situations, but rather also, "how do you cope" in all situations wether it be situations outside your comfort zone or when your are...

In my experience enneagram instinctual variants helped me see why I would not be on the same page as certain groups of people and as a result find them hard to read.

I was about 6 years of age when it happened. Woke up like any regular day with the gentle sunlight seeping through the window blinds. Mom was sitting at the dinning room table, grandpa in the kitchen probably washing dishes was so tall at the time. My height just reached below his waistline...

My usual response to passive aggression is to try to confront their behavior immediately, however, if I know this person is someone who generally does their best, I try to work with it and find a way to meet them in the middle. ie. they have something they need to get across, and may not feel...

My grandpa farted in my cereal bowl, that was the first time I felt a burning resentment because I literally thought it compromised the flavor of the milk. Everyone laughed at me, and it made me more angry because they didn't understand how I felt.

4s being common with infj would not be surprising to me given that being least common personality in the population would correlate to having a personality that sees itself as feeling different from others. 9, 1, 6 and then 2 would be next most common in my opinion.

Probably steer clear of jobs that require a lot of attention to detail like accounting, history professor, or transcriptionists. I can also get stressed speaking to people who can talk 100 miles of detail a minute on restaurants/traveling/people they know, but I don't know. I am also careful to...

A fluffy poodle.

If it's a daily basis thing, condemnation. I also fear time, and not living to my potential.