Recent content by Janski

Love and intimacy are basically the reason for my continued existence. When I look carefully at what truly motivates and drives me, it often (invariably?) comes down to love and finding someone to share everything with. I have been in love with two women who have left me, consequently, I have...

I don't know how to reply to the reputation comment thingies, but I find the most interesting thing you mentioned, Arsal, is that you would feel bad after sharing something deep. Now, this is very hard to grasp sometimes, but the only reason you feel bad is because of you. Next time something...

This will (probably) slowly eat away at you, because you know you really do want to share andconnect deeply with people; that's why you tried all those times before. Don't let yourself be conditioned into predicting the future (because you can't - you really can't) about people's reactions...

I'm cuurrently broken up with an INTJ who I love, and who loves me, but says "love is not enough". Essentially she is looking for someone for the "rest of our lives", and when I was asked if I could throw everything and everyone else away, to commit everything to "us" (we had been dating for 4...