Janelle

A few months ago I started reading books about the Enneagram and personality types. The day I found out that I was a full fledged INFJ was both insightful and disturbing. It's funny, but I always thought I was so open minded and non-judgmental, but I realized that I'm more judgmental than most people I know. Growing up, I thought that no one was like me and that I was like everyone, but in reality no one. It's great to know that there are millions of INFJs knocking about out there in the world. I hope I get to know some of you here and make friends.

I'm very sensitive, perceptive, and visual, and I don't like conflict and negativity (especially negative people). I love fun and laughing and have a quirky humor. I can be bold and direct, and don't like small talk, but I love deep conversations. People feel like they can trust me with their deepest secrets and tell me all of their troubles even if they have known me only for a few minutes, in which case I would listen and try my best to make them feel that I understand them (which I do) and make them feel that everything is alright. I sometimes think too much and can take things too seriously. I don't like being read like a book, but if you'd pick up any book with a description of an INFJ, you could literally read me like a book.