Recent content by isfj_mom

Hello everyone Checking back here and reviewing all the wonderful responses I received to my past dilemma. My daughter ended up moving out in 2017 into an apartment that I subsidized until last May when she cut off contact with me. Phew its been a roller coaster of emotions. I acknowledge...

Thank you James -you make a good point about asking for help with no judgement. It's not a nag, it's a request for help and I could see her responding more positively to that. As an isfj, I respond well to request a for help so I think she is similar. Now just how to word my request to NOT...

Thank you Hoodia -I just got back to this forum after a couple of rough months. I suffer from depression and have been having marriage issues (not caused by my daughter being home but certainly exacerbated by it!) And just now feeling better. I've learned a lot the past couple months on how to...

Thank you CindyLou - your perspective really help me come to some resolution over the issues. I've left her alone more, not reminded her about anything and when I couldn't help my ISFJ self and needed a status on something, I simply asked her to think about the situation and let me know what...

I'm an ISFJ Mom with an INFJ adult daughter, living at home temporarily while she finishes grad school - Social Work. I have been on the receiving end of her anger and viciousness - tearing me down with hurtful attacks on me after we start arguing about something. I have never understood how she...

I'm an ISFJ Mom with an INFJ adult daughter, living at home temporarily while she finishes grad school - Social Work. I have been on the receiving end of her anger and viciousness - tearing me down with hurtful attacks on me after we start arguing about something. I have never understood how...