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Thanks for your replies! I guess I'll try to be more honest with him - I don't want to end up in a situation where either of us tries too much to conform to the other's 'style' and gets unhappy. Relationships are about feeling around each other's quirks and reaching some kind of compromise...

Hi guys, I'm an INTJ who recently started dating an INFJ. We've been together for a couple of months (but we were really good friends for a year or so before that). I thought I knew him quite well, but some of his behaviour since we got attached has been a bit unsettling. He spends inordinate...