Recent content by Iridium

Okay I owe all of you a big thank you. It turns out that the problem wasn't me being gay at all! Okay maybe it did, a little at the beginning when she couldn't look me in the eye. She admitted it was weird at first but said she didn't mind anymore. The problem was the guy again. Not going to...

NaeturVindur - Okay wow I'm really flattered you took your time out to reply to this. Thank you so much. I sent a text to her a few hours ago, still waiting for her reply. Right on about the age. I do realise I'm overthinking, but since I have only a handful of friends which I truly care...

I see. Thanks for all the replies! I think I'll talk to her. I admit I do want some sort of closure. Hope for the best ><

Mind Labyrinth - I'm in Malaysia. The other 8 people I came out to, they were great about it. However, of the 8, one was gay, three were lesbians. So of the 9 people, only 5 were straight. I do pick my battles well don't I? Feed the INTJ's ego please! Well now might be a bad time to "confront"...

sentientsixpence - I'm sorry I don't quite understand. What do you mean? Mind Labyrinth - Hahaha thanks I'd be glad to have you as a friend! I'm somewhere in Asia. We don't get a lot of exposure to LGBT-related issues. Standard Asian thinking: If we don't talk about it, it doesn't exist...

Hey ti_co! Thanks for leaving a comment. I'm not sure what the folks here felt about sexual orientation topics so I didn't elaborate. It was one night she couldn't sleep and texted me. Then she told me a lot of really personal stuff. Like how she sometimes thinks of suicide and all. Like I...

Hey there Mind Labyrinth, thanks for taking the time to read and reply! I'm not sure whether this counts as telling her all i wanted from her was her support, but I did tell her to forget I ever told her anything, and that she doesn't have to handle it. She replied with, "How can I forget...

Hello! I'm a female INTJ, looking for help with my friendship with a female INFJ. Just a note, I'm not the usual INTJ, but rather love writing and do have feelings, just that I like to keep them hidden. Sarcasm is best! So, INFJs willing to help me, please come listen to my little story! The...