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Like you said, it's malleable. I read in a study somewhere that the more you grow attracted to someone, the less you focus on their physical appearance. They actually become more attractive in your eyes. Perhaps you should see if she is open to a relationship, but at the same time I wouldn't...

Yes. That way everyone involved wins. Perhaps, but say those "good ones" didn't have mutual interest in me. There's no point in pursuing girls like that, no matter how bad I'd want them. It wastes time and energy. I think I'm following you. Are you saying not to completely throw yourself...

It won't bite me in the ass, man. If it's meant to be it will happen. Absolutely. I have a 100% strike rate, meaning that I've only ever pursued girls who were interested in me. I've never experienced rejection. Yes, I've done a few things. Playful touching here and there, and genuine...

I know, and I'm not scared to ask, but asking is a last resort.

Well, hopefully she's the same. I always thought that if a girl was comfortable with someone it meant that there was no tension and that she didn't feel intimidated by him, which meant there was no attraction. Well, I've never asked about him before, she's always been the one to bring him up...

Actualized Type: INTJ Preferred Type: ENTJ Attraction type: ENFP ENFPs are magnets to my steel INTJ heart.

Here's how I look at "what ifs." Whenever I wonder "what if I took option B instead of option A" I tell myself "if you did take option B you'd be aking yourself what would've happened if you took option A. You can't have it both ways, just be glad you're still alive." I hope that made sense...

So, if you tell someone you're comfortable with them, it isn't always an indication that you're only interested in being platonic?! I always thought it was...

And it's fun to think of how to cover my bases as well. :) Also, if she calls me a moron I'll just call her one back. She'd have no reason to call me a moron, would she? Oh, it's not fair! She gets to play games with me, but not the other way around?! *throws a childish tantrum*...

Publicly embarrassed? Ha, I don't care what everyone else thinks of me anyway. How would that be embarrassing anyway? If she feels friendship, then that's fine because I'll already have another GF at that time, my date. :)

How could it possibly backfire? At the expense of her getting her feelings hurt, which would only happen if she felt anything for me, I'd gain the closure I need to sleep at night.

The kind that plays them, like her. If she's willing to play games with me then she shouldn't mind it when she gets played herself. Ha, try telling her that. Of course you didn't know who I was, I'm in disguise. You and Mohican use the same username and avatar, so it was easy to point you...

That seems to be the only place where my "Jness" kicks in also. Ps are always after new experiences, and so am I. I think I'm more of a J, though. Say I'm just staying at home, and out of nowhere my dad says we're going to a fancy place to eat and that we'd be leaving in 5 minutes. I'd be...

Oh right, we don't get the American version of that show where I live. :) Another thing, if she wants to hold my hand and hang out with just the two of us like we're a couple, when nothing's really been established and when I don't know if her boyfriend is still around, then that's seriously...