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Recent content by Gu33

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    Being realistic..?

    I think another important point to touch on is that how you say something can decide whether someone feels discouraged and beat down or they feel like maybe they’ve avoided a potential mistake. I know an individual who is looking for an escape from normal society and coming up with alternative...
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    Perceptions of "unattractive" people

    Times are tough out there for the ladies. Men do face some issues but I wouldn’t say to the same extent. Any tips from your experiences on how to help my daughter feel confident in her looks regardless of how they turn out?
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    Being realistic..?

    Great post. To be honest I think I’ve heard “be realistic” the most from my own internal monologue. I was raised in a pretty chaotic home where we were taught right and wrong but not by example. There was a heavy dose of gaslighting and refusal to acknowledge when a parent or sibling had ever...
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    The Golden Shadow

    I can definitely repress that ability when I’m overwhelmed by a situation and don’t feel like it’s the right time or the person may not actually want to hear it. Its also tied to my own current mental health. If I’m living in the future and worrying about all the upcoming problems then sometimes...
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    The Golden Shadow

    Nice post Asa. In response, I see my strength is in spreading positivity in encouragement and acknowledging the strengths of others. My goal in life is to plant little seeds of goodness in the people I meet everyday or to water the flower that is already grown. In 100 years nobody will remember...
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    The Golden Shadow

    I relate to that sentiment. I don’t like to really idolize an individual but more their accomplishments or what they’ve created. We only see a glimmer of the person. I really enjoy certain bands or authors and can gain so much from what they put out but I feel like there’s so much more to the...