second, @kyledge , you DID become antagonistic after. Try and keep in mind that, again, there's going to be misunderstandings, i don't think INFJs have any humour lol. Please try to be more respectful and not say things like "sorry for trying to be friendly".
Thank you both.
first, @Wyote , don't take stuff Kyledge says (in that kind of context) seriously. There's always going to be misunderstandings, but just try to interpret what they say as a joke when it comes off 'antagonistic.'