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Yes. I often do this whenever my priorities change. I look around at what is and is not working in my life and often some relationships get cut. Some people are leeches. They take up too much of my time or tax me emotionally without any benefit to me. Whenever I identify that this is taking...

Why is it that you think that INTPs are not good for INFJ males? Are there any specific issues that arise? I'm curious.

As an INTP, it's often hard to put what I feel into words, or to even know how to express how I feel. I don't always know what's expected of me in a relationship because for me the act of just being in the relationship and spending time with someone is enough. Clearly I love the person otherwise...

INFJs are awesome. They're pretty loveable. They almost make me want to Fe. :D

Yep, this is definitely not INTPc, that's for sure.

Ahaha, this forum doesn't scare me at all. I just have to reign in the sarcasm, that's all. :)

This was it for me, only it was kindergarten. On the first day all the kids were crying and just said bye to my mom and went to play with the lego. I didn't understand why other kids were so upset. Their parents were going to pick them up afterward, right? The kids did things that I thought...

I heard somewhere that people gain the most enjoyment out of interacting with people who are reasonably close to their own level, like within 10 IQ points in either direction. I'm not going to get into the whole IQ debate because I don't think it's the only way of measuring intelligence, but the...

I like warm, stable, low-maintenance relationships. I don't enter into relationships very easily or without a lot of thought so once I'm committed then I'm committed until I see a reason to end it. I don't really feel a need for lots of affirmation or romantic gestures, which means that often it...

Hello to you too!

I agree with ecton and peppermint. This actually sounds like a pretty good idea. Unless the INTP has already made up their mind that they really like you, it's probably best to approach with caution and take it slow, send out some feelers to test out their reaction before you really say in...