Recent content by GaiaGraha

I have had this issue, and for me it is also about escapism.

I don't think I count as older, but I recently thought about that area, and the more I consider it the more convinced I am.

This is mine too. I am afraid of making the wrong choices, wasting my potential (cuz I do that a lot...), not making a difference, and feeling so much regret and self-hate that I drown my sorrows in addiction, therefore continuing to be useless. I am really terrified of letting people down and...

Thanks so much for sharing. Slant said pretty much what I was thinking. Except to act like someone can just NOT conform to society is illogical too. It's nice to say that you can just choose to not fit your gender and not get a surgery, and I personally agree with that (cuttin on yoself aint...

Right.....that's special and all but I still wish I'd listened to my instincts and avoided the entire situation.

So, this is kind of relevant to my current situation. This guy asked me out, and I was unsure of whether I wanted to say yes or not because he is 34 and I am only 22, and he is divorced with two kids. My gut feeling was to say no, but I didn't want to be judgmental- I didn't want to label him...

It really is horrible and devastating. I heard that half of a town and its inhabitants are completely missing. So sad. And they were just about out of debt....now they are screwed. I know they will go on, they are Japan after all. That doesn't make this event less awful.

I often find that my first impressions of people are right, and that I should have trusted my instincts. I often try to not judge people and "give them a chance" and find out later that I was being overly nice and end up fucked over in the end, because they were exactly what I first thought they...

ENFP Best Job: Freelance Bubble Blower Worst Job: Task Manager

I agree with you bananaphone.

Billy, I totally agree with you.

I've done exercises in choir and acting groups where you must stare into someone's eyes for a certain amount of time. It's awkward at first and the tendency is to look away, but then it often brings people to tears, and makes them feel connected. Obviously we all know that people's eyes are...

Who Should Paint You: M.C. Escher Open and raw, you would let your true self show for your portrait. And even if your painting turned out a bit dark, it would be honest. This is true, even when I paint or draw myself.

It happens to me constantly when I don't take my adderall. lol. I have majors ADD. MAJOR. I think that is happens to ENFPs because, from what I have observed from ENFPs (my twin sister is one, I dated one, and I have had several as friends) tend to have a kind of natural ADD or ADHD, because...

I'm interested in looking nice/cool/how I want, but maybe not so much in fashion. I do care about what clothes I wear, how my hair looks, my shoes, it is more than just appearance- it's a fact that people naturally judge people on appearance, and I want to take pride in how I look. fuck no to...