Recent content by GaiaGraha

I have had this issue, and for me it is also about escapism.

I don't think I count as older, but I recently thought about that area, and the more I consider it the more convinced I am.

Yeah they are pretty fantastical, full of info and wonder. ^_^

This is mine too. I am afraid of making the wrong choices, wasting my potential (cuz I do that a lot...), not making a difference, and feeling so much regret and self-hate that I drown my sorrows in addiction, therefore continuing to be useless. I am really terrified of letting people down and...

Thanks so much for sharing. Slant said pretty much what I was thinking. Except to act like someone can just NOT conform to society is illogical too. It's nice to say that you can just choose to not fit your gender and not get a surgery, and I personally agree with that (cuttin on yoself aint...

Mooohhhiiiccaaaaannn.

Right.....that's special and all but I still wish I'd listened to my instincts and avoided the entire situation.

So, this is kind of relevant to my current situation. This guy asked me out, and I was unsure of whether I wanted to say yes or not because he is 34 and I am only 22, and he is divorced with two kids. My gut feeling was to say no, but I didn't want to be judgmental- I didn't want to label him...

Thank you, dear. ;)

Thank you!

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It really is horrible and devastating. I heard that half of a town and its inhabitants are completely missing. So sad. And they were just about out of debt....now they are screwed. I know they will go on, they are Japan after all. That doesn't make this event less awful.

Shai Gar is gone? How come?

Indeed! I've been gone. Life has been hectic for me, and I haven't had much time for my fellow INFJs, sadly. Plus, I always end up spending hours writing in all the forums...and then homework does not get done! But I am trying to be back, at least a little. How is you? '

I often find that my first impressions of people are right, and that I should have trusted my instincts. I often try to not judge people and "give them a chance" and find out later that I was being overly nice and end up fucked over in the end, because they were exactly what I first thought they...