Recent content by FamineGT

I have different groups of friends which satisfy different needs. There's a common element in my personality which I would think all of the groups would agree on about me. Sometimes I tone certain aspects of my personality based on the group. When I hang around my "Catholic" friends, I try to...

I used to be heavily concerned more about the people around me rather than my own needs as I felt that their problems were worse than mine. Now I've learned to tone that back a bit and balance my needs/interests with everyone else's. I'm under the mentality now that if I can't handle my own...

Whenever I feel betrayed, I also wonder and question why the person did that to me. As time goes on, it becomes much less relevant. In the end, it just becomes part of the learning experience. ^^

*from around the corner behind Sensiko* I don't know what you're talking about!! :m122:

I agree with Nitesteamer. If this guy will judge you only based off his initial impression of you, then he's not really worth pursuing. If the initial meet up does go well, then there's nothing to worry about. ^^ If the initial meet up doesn't go smoothly but if he's still interested, then...

I'll get a mix of reactions. Some people think that I'm pretty friendly, and at other times those same people get freaked out when they see me by myself on a bus looking "pissed" in their own words. ^^ It really depends on the person and situation. I tend to be more warm and open to people...

I agree though it's only been about a week. He's still in the venting phase and better to let it out now than fester inside later.

It sucks when your first relationship ends on such a sour note. My recent ex in the long term did a lot of things that were similar to your situation. She stayed with me because she felt I was "safe" and that I'd be there to help her whenever she'd run into problems. She had an ex that she...

I think your situation is quite different from the OP. At least you know more about your ex's situation and were able to come up with more valid reasons to explain her actions. You also offered her friendship which is quite a stand-up thing to do in your situation. I didn't see either of...

Actually, I meant whether the image of the tattoo will look drastically different when they get older. No one will look the same 50 years from now, but based on their body changing, it could edit the appearance of the tattoo enough to change its meaning. It reminds me of that one Zits comic...

It better be an awesome piece of art! ^^ As well, I never really understood/believed in the implications of a tramp stamp. The bigger concern is if the canvas will stay that way 50 years down the road. ^^

I wouldn't judge someone solely based on if they had a tattoo or not. As I mentioned above, it's more about the meaning and intent, not if they have one or not.

Yes, that's why I stated it. I may be biased, but I'm not bigoted or completely close-minded about it. I just wanted to be honest. [edit] And if you took offense to what I said, then I apologize. It wasn't my intent to do so.

Agreed. Even if I do stuff like this (in private, of course). ^^ :m056:

acd, Okay, that first paragraph probably wasn't the greatest way of explaining my point. Having a tattoo doesn't mean that a person lacks in self-respect of their character, only that their need of expression is more important than the respect of their own body. Sometimes people tattoo the...