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Recent content by Estelore

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    The Languages of Love

    Physical touch first for me, because I don't let people within three feet of me unless I trust them very well, and then acts of kindness. Love doesn't have to be romantic. Agape, folks! Selfless love!
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    Which Element are you?

    Well, Naxx, here I am. Rather, I'm an INxJ, since the T/F is indeterminate... but I identify most highly with fire, and I score as an air on the higher end of the scale. Of all elements, water is the one with which I identify the LEAST. Of course... nearly-drowning more than once can do that to...
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    How do you feel about eye contact, glaring, and gazing?

    In a long conversation, if the other person will not let me see their eyes, I feel tense and on-edge as though they might pull a knife on me suddenly. If I can see their pupils, even if they don't look directly at me, then I'm perfectly at my leisure. According to my friends, I have two...