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  1. Esperanza

    'Lonely by choice?'

    I am completely the same on this. And I agree with you wholeheartedly. When I started this thread I thought long and hard about using either 'lonely' or 'alone'. They are two completely different things to me. I believe what you are talking about, Delta, is being alone. You actively choose...
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    'Lonely by choice?'

    I'm sorry, I got that wrong Isis! To me it didn't sound like you were talking about a phase you were going through, but rather that's how life is and remains in your opinion. I choose to believe that I will meet all of the requirements of the right person, otherwise it wouldn't be the right...
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    How do you feel different emotions in your body?

    Man, that's really a question for ages! What the hell are neutral feelings?! Feeling depressed is somehow numb...like hearing everything through cotton and seeing everything through stained glass. Feeling cold, slow, heavy, tired. Neutral though truly is like feeling nothing at all...though in...
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    How do you feel different emotions in your body?

    Really cool pic!! I find it really interesting that 'proud' centers round your head and shoulders - like it's all the mind and ego talking. And fascinating is to me that being happy apparently makes you feel better than being in love. Depression hits certainly spot on. It's like life...
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    'Lonely by choice?'

    Thank you to all of you answering!! :) I have to say, this for sure isn't a happy topic or something to forget about and apparently something pretty common within INFJs. But: I refuse to believe that being alone is the end of that road! I think once you go there, it turns into a...
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    'Lonely by choice?'

    I have been trying to find out if something like this has been posted before, but could only find a similar thread, but actually not quite to the point I wanted to get across. So I hope you won't crucify me for opening a new thread! ;) I've stumbled across that statement: 'loneliness is...