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Recent content by Duchess

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    Perfectionism

    Was pondering the perfection thing over the weekend.....do you think it's such a bad thing to have as a character trait? I mean, seriously, wouldn't the world be a better place if everyone appreciated the beauty in striving to do and be the best they can? Is it really so wrong to want myself...
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    Perfectionism

    *nodding along with everything said up there ^ ^ ^* I've been working on my perfectionism for a couple of years now - it's working slowly...I'm not quite the control freak I used to be and the words "close enough is good enough" no longer turn my blood cold (coolish...but not cold). My...
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    Personal Growth

    My personal slant on this one is "Do unto others as they would have you do unto them" as much as possible. I like to "do unto" people in a way that has meaning to them, so that any experience they share with me may leave them feeling somehow connected and accepted...not necessarily to me...
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    Dismissing others

    I'm aware that I do dismiss people (most never know it though...it all happens behind the scenes). Just been trying work out if there is a pattern of dismissal that I have. If I am having a discussion with someone, the moment I realise they've stopped "discussing" and have become pedantic...
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    It's.....Monty Python's Flying Thread!

    lol....Lurker - love it! Always a great mood lifter hearing it - even better watching it. My favourite scene, also from The Life of Brian.... (A line of prisoners files past a jailer.) Jailer: Crucifixion? Prisoner Yes. Jailer: Good. Out of the door, line on the left, one cross each...