I like to think I saved an INFJ from a bad relationship by listening to her problems and reflecting back how shitty her boyfriend seemed. After a few months of allowing herself to be abused she finally broke it off with him. Naturally we ended up having a relationship together but I don't know...
Lol, this is why INTPs have a hard time making friends. I do tend to have a natural drive to point out minute discrepancies like that. I learned a long time ago that its better for the sake of my social well-being to just say "Fuck it" most of the time. I still have my moments though.
I tend to despise working with INTJs. Mostly because the ones I've met I feel have a tendency to be rather domineering and any input they give is redundant and condescending for an INTP. Its as though they are completely blind to an INTPs competency. INTPs hate to be thought of as inadequate...
This is a post I took from another personality type forum but I thought it described so accurately my 4-year relationship with my INFJ ex-girlfriend that I needed to share it.