Recent content by CuriousENFP

Thanks for giving me the reality check. Yea I am seeking professional help. I will probably use CBT strategies. Thanks for the affirmation and support.

After reading and reflecting on what all of you said, yes,I have become pretty delusional. I thought I heard him and his friends below my block,listening to my singing and complimenting my singing. And I thought his friends were cheering and booing for certain things I said or did,and posted...

Is it an ENFP stereotype to chase and hanker after unavailable guys? Idk, from what you have read about ENFPs? I can take brutal honesty and criticism.

Cause' I thought he was posting actively on Reddit, about me and stuff and wishing me happy birthday and all that in one of the subreddit. Not directly saying it to me but in a forum where you can post something you would like to say to someone but don't send. Like saying he wanted to know me...

So the last time, I talked about the INFJ who rejected me. He seems to be coming around and I thought he messaged me through a throwaway reddit account about a topic I wrote about. The writing style was eerily similar. Right now, besides thinking about the fact that I may not make a good partner...

I think all romantic feelings are gone now, at this point. I realise I was in love with a vision, a fantasy, a mirage. All the blinders are off. He explicitly said that he hates narcs and he has door slammed a few people who showed red flags. Being raised by narcissistic parents, that wouldn't...

I am a pretty self-aware person and the pdoc wanted to schedule a personality test but its 400 bucks so its out of my budget. I have met a couple of people with borderline personality disorder, and most, if not all, were insufferable to befriend, once I got close to them. They always yearn for...

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ENFP here-I have similar vibes to that girl, but I don't want to hurt anyone like the way she did, using ur money and spending it all. But I think immature ENFPs like me tend to be flirty and shy, and bounce around quite a bit. I like to be validated and I like to be loved by different friend...

I asked my pdoc and he said I do have some traits.

i keep trying to edit my post to add more stuff but its past the 5 minute mark: I realised I have violated some social norms with others inevitably, like a few couple of other people i met, didn't keep in touch. Thinking back, I may have overshared too much or I appeared too crazy. I probably...

U mean the bookstore?("Second of all, you asked to spend time with him somewhere, yet when you got there...") True. I realise the things I shouldn't do are: overshare too much, show too much suspicion.....be too needy or clingy. I also think he saw some of my other posts in the forum. i posted...

He was the one who offered to meet up for lunch/tea etc. So afterwards, I asked him where was he going, and he said the bookstore. So i accompanied him to the bookstore, for a while, because I had to collect my hamster's birthday cake later on. But when I got to the bookstore I was super shy soo...

This picture I found on facebook, while browsing...accidentally...is not helping:m083:

My upbringing has fucked me up so much. Constant comparisons with my cousins and younger brother, saying that they are smarter than me. Paranoid anxious mother who would switch between helicopter parenting, authoritarian parenting and overly critical parenting. My mum asking for the numbers of...