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Recent content by chasing the wind

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    Do you imagine/fantasise about stuff like conversations a lot?

    Yes, I definitely have a lot of inner conversations/ debates. But, this does not always prove to be helpful. It must be so interesting to be able to daydream in images and even smells! Are you by chance an artist? Because it seems like if you can imagine these things so vividly, that you could...
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    Thinking you know yourself and finding out you know nothing

    I like that. Although, when I first read it, I thought about how that may happen when other people get to know us, but you're right...there are always new things to learn about ourselves. It's the coolest thing when you've been staring at one of those pictures for a while and all of a sudden you...
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    Avoiding people?

    I know that the reason I do this sometimes is because of the imagined conversations I've had with people. I have imagined that they will reject me and so I assume I know what their reaction will be before even speaking with them. This is why I avoid actually talking to them. For me it is usually...
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    Escape from my thoughts

    This sounds intriguing, but I've not heard of "enneagram 4." Where does that come from, and where can I find more info?
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    Do you want to change?

    I have felt at times like extroverts are more socially accepted and that being an introvert I didn't quite fit in. But, I never thought that meant there was something wrong with me. Actually it speaks to the fact that our society is one of instant gratification-fast food, tv on demand, etc... As...
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    People's assumptions and how it affects us

    I agree. When we take a minute to think about what others are going through, instead of automatically assuming that they're out to get us we avoid a lot of conflict. If we take everything as a personal affront then we will respond in anger. If we try to see why they act the way they do, we will...
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    Escape from my thoughts

    Hmm..never thought about how food would affect my psyche...i should look more into that. Having depth and meaning in my life is not a problem...most of the things I think about are from real life situations/ people/ events etc...
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    Escape from my thoughts

    Too deep meaning it is all-consuming, and not usually based in reality.
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    Thinking you know yourself and finding out you know nothing

    Another thumbs up to Julia. I also think that the moment I define who I am, I start using it as an excuse for things. "No, I can't meet new people--it's uncomfortable because of my personality." The only thing that keeps me challenging myself is knowing that I am always in process and will...
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    43 Things Quiz

    "You are a Creative Spiritual Self-Knower" Pretty accurate, but wouldn't mind a description with a bit more info.
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    Escape from my thoughts

    Does anyone have any ideas/personal experiences about how to find escape from deep thinking in a healthy way? I find that I am ALWAYS looking for depth and meaning in life. This is usually not a bad thing, in fact I enjoy it. But there comes a time when I just don't want to think anymore. I...
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    Hi! This is somewhat overwhelming...I could see how I could easily get addicted.

    Hi! This is somewhat overwhelming...I could see how I could easily get addicted.