Recent content by Cealie | INFJ Forum

Recent content by Cealie

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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    I did ask him to tell me what I did wrong in countless ways. He just said nothing has changed while getting more and more dismissive of me. I am not one of his good friends as he basically indirectly told me. Truth be told I don't think he ever really liked me. I think he was just trying to be...
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    I would have agreed is he had wanted to hang out with me. But he never wanted to hang out with me. He even told me he only hangs out with very few people. He also the second time I went to his place seemed disgruntled and the next day told me “Don't get used to it because he's moving soon". He...
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    So I had decided to give him space then in a moment of weakness I messaged him. He cussed me out and told me to f off and blocked me. So I'm doing just that. I'm beginning to see that he isn't the person I thought he was.
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    I've been thinking and I'm wondering if maybe I came off as clingy to him. I did used to message him everyday or every two days. I still think he acted like an ajole but it could have been his way of getting me to not contact as much.
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    What you said was so true. But I've decided I'm done with him. I don't deserve what he's doing and I tried so hard to be nice and apologetic. I absolutely hate when people can't be honest and it bugged me even more that he can be brutally honest most times but won't admit that he doesn't see me...
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    Lol I'm so done with him. It's like something just shut off.
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    Yeah I can do that. He can kiss my ass for all I care.
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    Yeah. But it almost feels like he's been punishing me for something. I don't know why. I thought he was a good person. It almost seems like he despises me. Hopefully in a month's time I never have to see him again.
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    I've already found peace. I'm done with him. I'm going to throw his gift away. I've tried to hard and kept apologising. At this point I want nothing to do with him.
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    I didn't mean the gift in a romantic way. But you're right. He read the messages and hasn't responded so I told him don't worry about it. I tried really hard to be his friend and to make things ok. :( But I'll try to move on. It really isn't healthy for me.
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    So I had gotten him an apology gift recently and figured that since he and I started back talking it was ok to offer it. But he said “It's ok". I don't know if thelse means a gift wasn't necessary or that he just doesn't want a gift from me period. I'm trying not to cry as I might be leaving...
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    I didn't tell anyone except my sister and she's in a different country and doesn't even know his name. She knows of him by nickname. At work he was on sick leave when it happened and shortly after I resigned then he resigned so he and I never had the opportunity to be at work with each other...
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    Thing is in the beginning I had a huge crush on him. Which he suspected, he said I came on heavy. But it didn't bother him too much as he would reach out when if I fell ill for a few days and would allow me to eat his cake slices when colleagues had birthdays as he knew I had a sweet tooth. He...
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    INFJ Friend Is Done With Me?

    He came back. I had told him I'd block him or he can block me as I had to moved on. He texted me back annoyed. He thinks I'm overreacting and that I need help. As twisted as that sounds, I think it was his way of saying I should rethink things and that severing ties was a drastic thing to think...
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    In love with a INTP

    Please try it. We INTP love hugs. Sharing necklaces shows he feels close to you. But still be careful. Test him.