Recent content by Brruceling

Science. Specifically I am studying physics. My general cause is to contribute to the scientific community. I am hoping as I develop my focus/specialty I will eventually be able to mingle this cause with the grander cause of resolving some of the global crises we are facing.

I guess what I was trying to say was that you should be comfortable with your self-perceived flaws, and remember that other people see you differently and may not even perceive them as flaws. If you are willing to admit your flaws to another person with a "so what, nobody's perfect" attitude...

Confidence is knowing and being comfortable with your flaws, not pretending you don't have any. That's arrogance.

Most importantly you need confidence. What are your flaws that can lead you to feel unworthy, and what are you doing to better them? Like many INFJs, I set absurdly high standards for myself, and only slightly less absurd standards for a mate. I constantly analyze and criticize myself, and...

When I initially become interested in someone, my first move is to initiate and maintain one-on-one conversation of a personal nature. I seek to learn more about her before determining my level of interest. If I begin to feel that she is a particularly good match and someone I would really...

You are in fact missing something, I believe. If you want to know what its like to really fall in love you have to let it happen, and it doesn't happen overnight. You don't seem capable of falling in love because you aren't allowing your feelings to develop. You have this strong crush and yet...

I imagine more guys are capable of regularly enjoying casual sex than women. This is only because it is quicker and easier for a guy to get off, and there seems to be a prevalent social assumption among men that it is acceptable to define the sexual experience by male ejaculation. In a casual...

Chiming in to say that I think there may be a general consensus among INFJs that sex is only really enjoyable and satisfying in a close, loving relationship. My latest ex-girlfriend and I had a "perfect" sex life in every way, we had incredible sexual chemistry and were always going at it, and...

I appear cold to people I don't know. I have enough going on in my head at all times that I don't even usually take notice of the presence of unfamiliar people. I stop appearing cold as soon as we are actually introduced and have a chance to speak to each other, then I am suddenly warm and...