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That's me! I feel exactly the same way. It's uncanny! In every one of the cases where I blew up it was because I felt the other person was being needlessly aggressive/obtuse/unhelpful to me, when I go out of my way to help everyone and be nice to everyone. I am also not quick-witted when...

I know it's an old thread but the similarities are scary. I now realise why we INFJs avoid conflicts at all cost. It's because we handle conflict so badly. I am a very calm person nowadays and I have done a lot of work on my mind. Still, once every year or so I completely go off the rails for a...

(New member) So two days back I first came to know that I am an INFJ and then read up about INFJs - and I was almost in tears because I thought I'm not a freak after all. Only a week back I had told myself (again), that I am destined to be lonely all my life (although I am married and we have a...