Recent content by aristos achaion

You could try using a better DNS. You wouldn't think that'd help, but it can be really dramatic at times. Typically, I tend to use Google's public DNS servers: 8.8.8.8 and 8.8.4.4 .

I want to all the time, but I hold off enough that people who really know me tend to take it seriously. If I'm talking with another INFJ, I'll let myself go a little more...they tend to understand & will reciprocate. What's a bigger problem for me is the "Oh, yeah, I know what you're talking...

It depends. If I think what I'm trying to sell is truly good for the buyer, I'm actually quite good at it. (My ex-gf always complained about me "selling" her shoes when we went to Goodwill.) But I can't sell someone something I don't think they need...the very idea is soul-crushing.

Mind you, just because INTJs don't express emotion doesn't mean they don't have it. They certainly do, and when it comes out, it's raw & uncontrolled...and, often, they're little help in understanding / fixing the crisis. I love 'em to death, I'd just hate to be one...