Recent content by Arindum

I was (still am), trying to look at things from INFJs perspective, to understand the situation a bit better. I always try to see things from other side of the river so that any wrong idea wouldn't be there.

I see, I watched few videos of him to get better understanding of INFJs, one of them explained why INFJs ruin relationships or have a hard time in moving on.

Does anyone watch Frank James videos on YouTube? Is is accurate what he says ?

I don't have any bitterness towards her... Even though I am sad... I truly want her to be happy, and if it means to staying away for a while I am fine with that.... Gotta give myself a bit time.

I do feel like l crave for spending time with her but it doesn't haves very often cuz you know INFJs are always in a rush for going back to their room to their one and only love which is their bed. But even if it's just a min I get with her, it feels like the best min of my life. <3

Well I have been that guy when I was younger, and I came a long way from that point. Guys do pretty stupid things when they're emotionally overwhelmed. Right now I am putting her priorities and free will before mine

though I loved it more if few INFJ females would share why and how they fell in love and what things they looked up in a man.

Nah it's okay I am open for suggestions, and besides I love to know about "how other people feel in love" I think knowing this fills a void somewhere in my heart and afterwards I can tell myself that I still have to keep hope for myself.

So how will you define romantic feelings ? Cuz now I curious to know your perspective or to know the general definition.

And I am looking forward to making new friends, there's always room for another one ;)

Sure I'll actually when I found out that she's an compatible match for me my confidence may had been boosted a bit. Lol

Thank you so much giving your insight about this, It takes a lil bit stress off my shoulder. But yeah I think I do have a bit romantic feelings about her cuz I guess I find her pretty especially her Alita like eyes. She may not find me that attractive cuz INFJs tend to set unexpectedly high...

Ikr ! Ironically this is what I used to say to her cuz I have seen both of us in bad relationships and it was a core reason for me to be there for her whenever she needs me and reason why I tried to love someone again while keeping the fear of rejection or any other fear aside. I am not blaming...

Though I did said to her that It's fine if she's not able to return the same feelings which I have for her, and whether she says yes or no I'll still be her friend who loves to annoy her for no reason at all.