Recent content by andria32

I echo merrytrees. I have a ridiculously hard time depending on other people for help. Which, is typically because I've been screwed over a lot in the past... I'd rather only have to rely on myself, because it's so upsetting when people disappoint me.

One of my exes was an INFJ. I wasn't into Personality Types at that time and only recently found out he is an INFJ. (We've been apart about 5 years now.) Doesn't surprise me a bit though. We were together for 6 years and ultimately it just got boring, and disintegrated into a really close...

Wow, this is a really interesting thread. I'm similar to a lot of you. I don't have an eating disorder per se, but I don't eat well. Sometimes I'll forget, and just be too wrapped up in something to bother. Sometimes it seems like too much work to do all the prep and cooking and clean up...

Helping people, hands down, is the most motivating thing for me. Making people's lives easier, making people happier. Animals too. I used to work in process improvement and they'd always have me working on initiatives that would increase revenue by X % or grow margin or increase product mix...

I've had several close friends crush on me. two of them, I ended up in long term relationships with - so I dug the whole them crushing on me and just felt good about it and flirted back and went with it. Another close friend had a crush on me, and never told me about it but would constantly...

I have a lot of "friends" that are friends because I like one or two little things about them A LOT but everything else, not so much... or I see the potential in them and want to help draw it out if that makes sense. It's horrible though - mostly they suck energy out of me or stress me out...