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Recent content by alta

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    "Nice girl" personality or stereotype

    "Shy, rarely objects to anything, insecure in her looks, rarely swears, avoids references to looking sexy or having sex, usually waits for the man to show initiative, ultra-caring, etc." FTFY I would also add "not manipulative" and "someone who wouldn't take advantage of someone else for...
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    Relationships and Social Anxiety

    Relationships usually either failed to materialize (due to avoidance) or suffered from my not wanting to go out to parties as a date (loud noises, clubs, darkness, too many people)... As for approaching people, I prefer not making an effort there and just wait for them to come to me (and...
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    Reaching out to people

    Absolutely. High school was probably the only time I really cared about meeting new people developing friendships. After graduation, I realized how little they actually contributed to my life and (perhaps selfishly) I focused more on myself and the handful of people I cared about... After...