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Recent content by Alplily

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    Boss shuts me out

    Thanks, everyone. Well, I sent a carefully-crafted letter to my trusted board member, who has been asking how things are going, has expressed concern, offered support, told me I am not alone in this, etc. This is his very disappointing response: "I have reviewed your email. It is clear that...
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    Boss shuts me out

    Contacting the labor board is good advice. However, I am in an at-will state, which means I can be fired for no reason and without explanation. Employee protections are not great. I will do research. I do better when well-armed with relevant facts.
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    Boss shuts me out

    Like most INFJ's, I have a strong sense of right and wrong, and communicate better in writing. But, hell hath no fury like a wronged and pissed off INFJ! :-)
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    Boss shuts me out

    Ummm. Thanks for the on-topic responses, but for f's sake, can we quit with the bickering? My job, and my livelihood are at stake... no exaggeration. Thanks. As of this moment, I have written a strictly confidential email, with attached, very lengthy documentation (including copies of emails...
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    Boss shuts me out

    Yes. I do.
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    Boss shuts me out

    Thanks for the thoughtful response. I am going to try to connect with someone on the board, I think. I have documented everything.
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    Boss shuts me out

    I am a 51 year old experienced and successful nonprofit fundraiser. We have a new, completely inexperienced, 32 year old, executive director. I have tried to be as supportive as possible in spite of the fact that she makes over 3x what I make. However, she has made decisions about my staff and...
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    How have others consistently described you?

    People who don't know me (or understand me): Reserved, intimidating, quiet. I've been called socially awkward (when I was younger). At a gallery event this year, I had a total stranger walk up to me and say that I exuded grace and strength. (Go figure.) Friends: Intelligent, creative, reliable...