Recent content by Almisen

Dear all, I’m fascinated by the MBTI types and have learned so much about myself and others through them but one thing puzzles me. I don’t really understand how the letters decide the functions stacks. For example, if I’m an infj and my friend is an infp then theoretically we could be very...

Oh yeah, just realized you asked about ISTJ and not ISFJ :) That was my ex (if I haven’t mistyped him of course), we divorced 10 years ago. But definitely more challenging regarding way of thinking, lifestyle etc, that’s what finally made us come to and end. Can definitely empathize with your...

Ooh, love the question! :D As you say, I find it balancing. They bring out very different sides of me and I like that a lot. I tend to accommodate in relationships and easily lose track of myself if I'm not careful, so relating to very different partners is very helpful, it’s helps me see...

My ex is probably an ISTJ and we were together for 10 years :) And now I’m involved with one ISFJ and one ENFJ (I’m polyamorous btw, seems to be uncommon for INFJs? And of course everyone knows and are ok with it and so on; this ExxP guy is a relationship anarchist so that’s definitely not an...

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At this point I think the only way to keep him in my life was to either get into conflict or transform the relationship. I just realized that I had reached my limit, it kind of messed up my own plans and other commitments too much. Actually, I think I just had to accept that I could have limits...

Well, I’ve been thinking about this and quite a lot so it doesn’t feel that fast to me :) Just needed to process this particular thing too, and I think it’s something that might bother me in future relationships if I don’t did wats to deal with it, so I’m grateful for your reflections. Turned...

Haha, I hear you :D

Thank you for sharing your experience. Exactly, it’s not as this guy is careless either, it’s just not his thing. It stresses him out to plan things in advance. Your advice make a lot of sense. Somehow I feel guilty if I don’t try my best to make sure that we can meet, as it would mean that he...

This is my first post here so I start by saying Hello :) So... I’ve had some specific difficulties in a recent relationship an wonder if its a common mismatch thing between types. Some ideas how to work around it would be really great too :) I’ve been seeing a guy for about 8 months and we...