Hey there. First post of a confused INFP.
I’m interested in a INFJ coworker. I know her since 8 month. To keep it short: We had lunch break together - then I invited her to hang out after work and been rejected, so I backed off.
Few weeks later she initiated to hang out together, which failed due to the sudden Covid-19 lockdown.
After the situation improved here, I tried to initiate to hang out and got rejected again. I backed off again, but we still kept friendly contact. Few weeks later, she finally agreed to go swimming together. But she canceled a few hours before, because she was feeling unwell. (Sounds true, met her at work same day)
The following day my vacation began. I texted her and asked her to let me know when she wanted to hang out, but got no reply at all since then. I don’t want to be too clingy, but I don’t want to give up too fast either. Since I am still on vacation, I want to use the time to rethink the situation.
So I appreciate your (INFJ) feedback – should I back off or try to initiate contact again ?
I’m interested in a INFJ coworker. I know her since 8 month. To keep it short: We had lunch break together - then I invited her to hang out after work and been rejected, so I backed off.
Few weeks later she initiated to hang out together, which failed due to the sudden Covid-19 lockdown.
After the situation improved here, I tried to initiate to hang out and got rejected again. I backed off again, but we still kept friendly contact. Few weeks later, she finally agreed to go swimming together. But she canceled a few hours before, because she was feeling unwell. (Sounds true, met her at work same day)
The following day my vacation began. I texted her and asked her to let me know when she wanted to hang out, but got no reply at all since then. I don’t want to be too clingy, but I don’t want to give up too fast either. Since I am still on vacation, I want to use the time to rethink the situation.
So I appreciate your (INFJ) feedback – should I back off or try to initiate contact again ?